alanaargh wrote:
I think I have this problem too, and I would definitely be interested in any ideas to why this is. For example, I allow my mum to hug me, however I really can't stand anyone else doing it, espeically my dad.
I have a hugging hierarchy as well. I will hug my mum, but not my sister. Well, more like I would hug my mum less awkwardly than I hug my sister. I'm extremely affectionate towards dogs and I love recieving affection from them, but people are awkward for me.
I do want to be closer to others, both physically and emotionally, but its just really awkward. I don't really know why its so difficult.