enrico_dandolo wrote:
On the whole, when my humour is for myself more than for others.
^ This. I often make up jokes and because I have made them up I often find myself laughing at them a lot. I do have an innate ability to make other people laugh but I have learnt it's all about delivery and timing. I can make the worst pun sound funny if I wait for the right moment and say it in just the right way.
I also laugh at anything that's funny, it doesn't matter how controversial it is, if I make that 'link' in my head to humour, then I'll just laugh (and not feel bad about it because I know it's just a joke to me).
One of the problems I have with humour is that I often find myself thinking of something funny, say, on the way to work. Once the 'link' has been made I just want to laugh but there are others around me and I'm aware that if I do I may get 'looks'. So instead I smile and try to keep it in but I will just make myself laugh like that all the time. I have found a solution to this however. If I feel like I need to burst out laughing on the way to work I will just pull out my phone quickly, pretend to answer it, and seconds later I will let it rip. Anyone walking by just thinks a friend had told me a joke and I look a little less crazy to strangers. On second thought, I really shouldn't care...
In fact I'm laughing right now. I find it funny when women shake their heads and fingers and say "Oh no you didn't", haha!