Is there a way to help stay calm in crowds

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Pokelover14
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25 Mar 2012, 10:10 pm

I need help because whenever I am in crowds of more than 10 people I start to lose it. Is there a way to help that?


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25 Mar 2012, 11:14 pm

Pokelover14 wrote:
I need help because whenever I am in crowds of more than 10 people I start to lose it. Is there a way to help that?


you suffer from severe anxiety my doctor as prescribed me lonazep its a relaxant for social phobia


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26 Mar 2012, 6:46 am

Yeah, try to collect your thoughts and take it slow. If you get frustrated you'll just get more anxious and freak out, probably start to rush through the crowd.

I used to take Ativan and now I take clonazapam for my social anxiety.



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26 Mar 2012, 7:22 am

For me it's not about the size of crowds. I can be quite happy sitting in a cinema with 100+ people, but absolutely anxious as hell around a small group of people. In many ways I like the anonymity of large crowds, the lack of expectation to interact; but I do have a problem if they're particularly noisy or "fast moving" ... I can't stand the shopping mall when it's busy, and I hate the supermarket.

I have recently had some experience with diazepam and found it helpful, but this prescription has now been stopped.

So I'm back to
a) only going to be around people when I absolutely *have* to, or feel like I can cope with it and
b) leaving as soon as I can't cope any more.

If I don't have the opportunity leave whenever I need to, that makes the whole situation a lot more difficult to cope with.


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