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Ceaser
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28 Apr 2006, 5:11 pm

I have no problem sharing mine. I have already posted my interest in sex and I had one reply that everyone here is addicted here. If I told you the day before yesterday I had sex three times including once in a field and afterwards I was physically wiped out but wanted more. Or how about having sex whilst driving and knowing other drivers are watching and I telling my girfriend not to worry about other eyes that they are not interested but knowing they are and enjoying them watching us.

I love anywhere I can portray myself in the nude but my greatest fear is having urges to do the same in public places at important events, whether I be with friends and these thoughts really terrify me.

Sometimes I do rock climbing and put my life in danger a fine line between life and death but being 53 years old who x wife committed suicide I try to steer myself away from danger.

Now tell me yours and I will expand my true stories in my reply



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28 Apr 2006, 5:36 pm

Pervatosis



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28 Apr 2006, 11:06 pm

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28 Apr 2006, 11:09 pm

Aw, the boy bus is driving with the girl bus. So romantic. :P



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29 Apr 2006, 1:46 am

Wow man, at least you can get sex. Sure, you can get addicted to it, just like you can get addicted to surfing online, etc... But yeah, at least you can get it. For me, 25, never even kissed a girl, my options are clearly headed to the pay variety.



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13 Sep 2006, 5:22 pm

I have problems sharing intimate thoughts and talking about intimate things. I thought maybe every Aspie had problems with that, but I suppose that isn't the case. Any suggestions on how I can get over being shy about that stuff? You can post here, PM me, or IM me at justadreamer111, if you have any suggestions.



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20 Oct 2006, 5:49 pm

I fear that I will never have someone to Shag with. That's beach dancing to you under 16s'.



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22 Oct 2006, 7:40 pm

Austin Powers popularized the 'Shagging' word, so no worries. All youth these days know it.



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22 Oct 2006, 8:39 pm

My fantasies/fetishes are illegal and widely regarded as immoral, so I'm not gonna get into 'em. Sorry... not even sure why I posted, now that I think about it.



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08 Nov 2006, 2:05 am

Ceaser wrote:
Or how about having sex whilst driving and knowing other drivers are watching and I telling my girfriend not to worry about other eyes that they are not interested but knowing they are and enjoying them watching us.

Can you explain the mechanics of this? I can handle the road head thing if I'm on a highway, since you only need to maintain speed and course, but I have to think actual sex would obscure your field of vision, unless hearing "There's a guy merging on your left." does it for you. That, placement of the steering wheel, ability to keep steady pressure on the gas pedal, etc.

As for the question, I need lots of sex too. I was just thinking today that it's probably closely related to my AS. I don't recieve "I like you" signals very well, but sex is pretty much objective evidence that you're somewhere above water.

Oh, and as for getting sex, OKCupid.com is good if you can IM comfortably. If need be, pretend you're talking to a friend. And IM a lot, so if you barely talk in person, it won't be as big a problem. As for initiating physical affection, I generally wait until the girl looks frustrated, then go at a reasonably steady pace until sex or she says stop. There's better ways of going about it, but there you go. And avoid hookers. The decent ones aren't worth the price and the affordable ones aren't worth any number of other factors.