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26 May 2012, 3:41 am

What are they?

Mine are:

- Online.

- Doing something with a friend, like playing games together.

- Just being in the same room as someone, each doing our own thing but enjoying each other's company.

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26 May 2012, 4:09 am

Mine are the same as yours. The "activities" I most enjoy sharing with a friend would be boardgames, a hit of squash, or bushwalking.

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26 May 2012, 7:44 am

Who_Am_I wrote:

- Online.
- Doing something with a friend, like playing games together.
- Just being in the same room as someone, each doing our own thing but enjoying each other's company.

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26 May 2012, 1:24 pm

almost same like yours
i would like to travel also with a good friend
and meet occasionally for a coffee

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07 Jun 2012, 12:08 am

I like Video games and Intellectual debate or conversation. My friends invite me to house parties, but they're not my cup of tea.

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07 Jun 2012, 7:02 am

The place where I socialise a lot with friends is a theatre bar, which is quiet, sedate and not very overwhelming to the senses. So that would be my answer. I love going there. Also, playing Scrabble.

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08 Jun 2012, 4:04 am

Online friendships and just being in the same room as someone, each doing our own thing but enjoying each other's company.

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08 Jun 2012, 9:55 pm

Doing something. Anything but sitting around and talking...or just "hanging around".

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08 Jun 2012, 11:22 pm

Text based interaction via the Internet or cell phones

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08 Jun 2012, 11:41 pm

Online conversation, possibly also texting.
Talking one on one with someone I appreciate.
Intellectual debate, ideally one on one, but with no more than two other people.

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08 Jun 2012, 11:42 pm

Who_Am_I wrote:

Same. Although if I click with someone I do like to just chat sometimes, but three is a crowd in terms of that. And I do run out of stuff to talk about after a while.

One thing I really like doing with people is outdoors stuff, like boating or cycling or even just outdoors work of some sort. Again though ... three is a crowd.

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09 Jun 2012, 7:26 am

The internet. I don't know why, maybe I feel less shy talking to people who aren't in my family or close in real life. I get very shy, but talking to people on the interenet is a lot easier for me.

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09 Jun 2012, 9:10 am

- Talking online
- Talking face to face and doing something at the same time
- Sex

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09 Jun 2012, 9:21 am

Mine would be when my subjects approach the throne to pay homage to me, their queen.

Actually, that wouldn't be half bad.

But for real, I do like online. I also like sitting around in small groups of people talking. I also like parties where there are a lot of people, many who I don't know, and everybody is expected to mingle, and that way I get to meet people and talk to them but I don't have to stick with somebody so long as to get bored.

If I were single, I'd love speed dating.

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17 Jun 2012, 8:01 am

Likewise, I have to be doing something with friends, not just sitting there talking.

Most of my favorite social experiences revolve around my interests, such as jam sessions, road trip to a concert, going to art museums and galleries, working on homework together, watching movies I like, etc. I'm kinda selfish and childish that way. I just want someone to play with that likes the same games as me. I also like playing games, particularly Scrabble and Balderdash.

I also really like talking online. I sound much more intelligent when I can actually pause to think about what I'm going to say without it being a social faux pas.

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17 Jun 2012, 9:45 am

-talking about an interest that we both like
-talking when I'm drunk
-going to a pub and talking with friends
-talking on online forums
-talking on dating sites
-texting

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