Do You Prefer To See A Pic Of Your Online Friends?

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04 Dec 2012, 7:25 pm

I know I prefer it. Not from the get go, but if we have talked for a good while, and become good friends I really like seeing who I am talking to because it just feels more real if I know what their face looks like. If they refuse to show a picture, I get kind of worried that they could be a troll or something.


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05 Dec 2012, 1:58 am

Of course there's always the underlying curiosity of what my online friends look like but I won't judge them if they don't show their picture. Personally, my online friends are those who I've connected with on a much deeper level than I do with a regular friendship. With regular friendship, I'm not as warm but way more polite than when I communicate with people online. The thing I love about the internet is that I can communicate with others on the web without a fear of my personal inhibitions, as opposed to when I'm with people face-to-face (My face is one of those things that can deter people from even wanting any communication with me unfortunately.)

I mean, I have like no sense of hope in the world when it comes to communicating with people face-to-face, the internet is, sadly, the one place I can vent out and actually witness good things.

So do I care if I see someone's face if they're my friends exclusively online? No. ;)


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05 Dec 2012, 3:10 am

For sure~

It's pretty mysterious at first when I was talking with someone without a picture, but that got old so fast it felt like I was talking with a wall.



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05 Dec 2012, 8:47 am

Nope, but they end up insisting I see what they look like. I mean this in the nicest possible way, but I couldn't give a crap.



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05 Dec 2012, 3:37 pm

BrokenEnvoke wrote:
For sure~

It's pretty mysterious at first when I was talking with someone without a picture, but that got old so fast it felt like I was talking with a wall.

lol, mine is more like a water well and my rope is sometimes too short or just get a bucket of sand back.



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05 Dec 2012, 5:06 pm

I actually don't have that many pictures taken of me.



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07 Dec 2012, 9:07 am

I would have for one particular person...but they have changed so much that to me seeing their face would feel forced (I feel that they are being pressured).


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07 Dec 2012, 9:13 am

I don't mind seeing a picture, but it doesn't do much to me feelings wise. It doesn't made me feel like I 'know' the person better, so in that sense it doesn't matter to me.


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07 Dec 2012, 12:14 pm

No.


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07 Dec 2012, 12:58 pm

i dont go talking with strangers
online its only on WP venting about my frustrating life


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07 Dec 2012, 3:54 pm

Definetely. I'll want to see what they look like after a week of talking generally.



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07 Dec 2012, 4:40 pm

No not really, in fact, it makes it easier to talk, if they have their preferences and or subjects listed, that would be a bonus.



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10 Dec 2012, 4:10 pm

I need to know what my friends look like. They aren't real people in my mind otherwise.


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27 Dec 2012, 11:15 am

No it doesn't matter :)



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27 Dec 2012, 6:58 pm

Doesn't matter. They'd still be the same person no matter what face they had.


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