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27 Jul 2011, 1:05 pm

First I'm not really sure where to put this.... again... but I do think it will be intersting to discuss... however..

So in my case I like to dream about my own world... where everything is as close to the way i'd want it to be as possible...
within reason of course(my own bizarre way of reasoning might be odd but it's still a form of reason)

altought i try to make it seem reasonable for my dreams to be how i want them... it isn't always easy.
this can be fun sometimes becuase it makes me more creative then i draw the people i see in those dreams..

my question isn't about art... aloutht i did mention that...

this is the question...

is it ok to dream about,
Living in the perfrct place,
having lots of friends,
socailizing with people who have similer issues like me,
and being apart of a really kind and caring family...

that pretty much is what my fantasy world is like... but on occasion it gets a little out of hand...
a few poeple in those dreams of mine seem to ruin it or just cuase chaos... then i do that to... sometimes
So you know i feel like the world in my dreams is more like the real world that I belong in...
it isn't too much like the real world i'm forced to live in

if anyone here is happier in ther dreams or fantasy world... here the place to say it.

I'm also planing to write a book based on the fantasy world i dream about.... it will be one of those emotionall/action/
sci fi/fanstasy/fiction... well along the lines of of one those somewhere....
Did I mention most of the people in my dream world... if you want to call it that... they all have their own unique personallitys and for some disabilitys.... some are mental related and at least one person in that world is blind...

am I right to think that this world I dream about is just as imortant and real as the one i actually live in...



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27 Jul 2011, 4:44 pm

I`m always living in a fantasy world! It`s always about me and Billy Idol! It`s my happy place :D The world is so cruel and cold that I love to live in a fantasy world of happiness!


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27 Jul 2011, 10:19 pm

hey dude i totally am with that.
If you can get away with it i'm just about as nothing as i can get with my imagining things celebrities might do or date or whatever that i wish would happen or redo situations or meet new or old people in my life.
trust me, i'm in the club.
go for it.
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27 Jul 2011, 11:18 pm

I reall am glad to see i'm not the only one who has their own world to live in besides the one the is suppossed to be real

thank you for shareing and feel free to post if you have not already!

I find this very intresting.... Do you?



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28 Jul 2011, 1:22 am

The most successful people of this world have dreams and work on making them come true.



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28 Jul 2011, 1:52 am

The fantasy world is the most important one. Its the one that keeps you going when the real one gets more complicated. I spend 90% of my day in my fantasy world in my head, it often feels more real than the boring one my physical body is confined to...


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28 Jul 2011, 4:08 am

transformingcar wrote:
am I right to think that this world I dream about is just as imortant and real as the one i actually live in...


It truly is. If it doesn't interfere too much with your life, it is perfectly alright to spend time in it. As someone who lived in imaginary worlds until I was a teen and still daydreams endlessly, I recognise the importance of escapism, as long as your escapist world life is balanced with the real world.


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03 Jul 2012, 12:21 am

I live in a fantasy about me and Buffy being best friends and doing everything together! We have slumber parties and fight the forces of darkness! That's why I have a Buffy doll lol!


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05 Jul 2012, 8:49 pm

I do this quite a lot. I've noticed that the fantasy world shows one's desires as well as one's issues. For instance, in mine I have a lot of siblings (only child), and I also have a lot of people who look down on me but I'm able to deal with it better in fantasy than in real life ( have the issue of being looked down upon but want to be able to deal with it better ). In any case, it's completely okay and normal to have these. A lot of people have their own fantasy worlds; they just tend to be secretive about them. If people didn't have fantasy worlds, no one would ever have written sci-fi or manga style fiction.