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18 Sep 2012, 1:11 am

I have never had any friends, people annoy me (Funnily enough this is only online mostly), I'm a recluse, I have no social life, on or offline.
Do I win the autism competition?



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18 Sep 2012, 1:27 am

No. You're winning at introverted-ness, though I can't tell you if that has something to do with autism or not.

If we're competing:
The ones who win are the ones who try and try and try to succeed socially and fail 100% of the time.
The ones who win double are the ones who try and try and fail and don't know it.

At least in my opinion. :)



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18 Sep 2012, 1:42 am

Well when I was at school I was that double autism thing you speak of!
I win!



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18 Sep 2012, 3:28 am

People suck, (not us aspies of course) they only hurt you end. I just lost a friend after a decade of closeness and a gf as well of past 5 years so i think it's suicide time for me



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18 Sep 2012, 4:14 am

I don't have any friends whatsoever so I win!


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18 Sep 2012, 7:53 pm

I have friends who think I'm normal but treat me like I'm not.

Does that mean I win???



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18 Sep 2012, 7:53 pm

Isn't winning this contest really loosing in the long run?



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18 Sep 2012, 8:24 pm

EstherJ wrote:
The ones who win are the ones who try and try and try to succeed socially and fail 100% of the time.


Sorry guys, I'm taking the cup.


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24 Sep 2012, 7:41 am

I should at least get Honorable Mention..



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24 Sep 2012, 9:42 am

No social life - no one wants to associate with me.
Use and throw is what i am. A tissue paper.


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24 Sep 2012, 9:44 am

Pretty much, yes. I'm in, too.



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24 Sep 2012, 10:52 am

namaste wrote:
No social life - no one wants to associate with me.
Use and throw is what i am. A tissue paper.

I have had that many times over the years-I will never learn.


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