Why do some people have to be so weird?

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24 Sep 2012, 7:58 am

They say Aspies are the ones who are selfish and unreasonable, but I don't know so much. I've seen situations what are caused by a selfish NT who is causing a scene when there is no need to, just to be awkward, and other times they can be so weird. Like our next door neighbours. They are always friendly and chatty to us, but one evening we were listening to music in the living-room that wasn't loud at all, and they banged on the wall angrily, and my mum and her friend knew it was an angry bang at us, so we switched it off quickly. Then a few months later we suddenly heard a telly really murmuring so loud we could almost feel it vibrating, and they don't normally have loud tellies, and it didn't even need to be that loud at all. It was even distracting the others that live in my house, and they are NTs, so it must have been that annoying. But we know full well that if we banged on the wall to get them to turn it down, I bet they'll react and not talk to us any more and go funny on us.

I just think people can be so weird and can have funny ways. Don't you agree?


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24 Sep 2012, 8:49 am

I agree. People can be weird and have funny ways. I suppose everybody is selfish and inconsiderate at times, but some people can definitely be a bit more of a git than others. Bah!



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24 Sep 2012, 8:57 am

When i was living with my brother, he used to have a thing about me banging the door when i shut it. It was a door that would swell in cold weather and you would have to give it a good pull just to get it closed.

Well my brother, even if i only entered or left the house once per day, he'd actually turn his tv down so he could listen as i banged the door and then he would hit the roof and rant about it.

Other times, he would turn his tv down so he could hear me playing my music upstairs. Then he would get upset because he could hear it.

It's like, people expect silence in a world that is inhabited by other people somehow. Actually, i say that but i havent got a clue why some people go so out of their way to be such dicks. No excuse is necessary for them to be so illogical, and no reason will ever explain it. It's a hard fact of life that most people are full of s**t and i usually find myself to be the only sane person i ever met. Although hmm, maybe it's not that i started sane, it's just that i think it's such an important thing to get rid of my insane little irational thoughts and i learn to rationalise them, making even my irational impulses rational. It's just a shame that it doesn't seem to matter to most other people though, i guess most people are too selfish to even attempt to stop inflicting their madness on other people.