Is anyone else older than people think they are?

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I'm 27, and it's got to the point where people actually register shock when they find out how old I am. I think it's a combination of things. Firstly, I've been told I have a baby face which I suppose I can't really do anything about. But it's compounded by the fact that my voice and mannerisms are somewhat childish. Then, there's also the fact that I don't like to talk about things 'typical' for a 27 year old, eg. work, relationships, kids, age appropriate tv shows (whatever they are). If I talk at all, it's usually about the Simpsons, Anglo-Saxon history or the Bible. So, it happens quite frequently that I'll be talking to someone and when they find out how old I am, they make a huge deal about it, and say something like 'I can't believe you're 27, I thought you were so much younger!' To be honest, it's embarrassing, especially as it now happens every time I mention my age. I could put up with it when I was 22 and people thought I was 16. But some people still think I'm 16-18, approximately 10 years younger than I actually am. I don't particularly want to be 27, either, so it's a hard reminder of my real age (I forget a lot of the time!).

So, just wondering if that happens to anyone else - do people think you are younger than you really are?

Looking younger than our age is a common ASD trait. I'm 49 and everyone seems to think I'm 39, which is great, so I guess I shouldn't complain.

Sort of... for me it's been more of a "looks a lot closer to 20 than he is" thing.

When I was in my mid-teens, people usually thought I was older than I was. When I got older, though, people started thinking I was a lot younger than I really was. I'm nearing 40 now, and if I'm clean shaven people seem to think I'm in my mid 20's. If I don't shave, I they place me closer to 30.

I don't look, sound, or (usually) behave in a child-like way, I just appear to age slowly it seems. I have a lot of hair that shows no signs of receeding, though, so that might contribute to the younger look -- people seem to expect a certain amount of hair loss in men.

I used to get asked for ID for cigarettes fairly often even just a few years ago, though I was more than 15 years past the legal age (I don't smoke anymore, though). I used to think I'd just gotten lucky genetically (as far as aging goes), but I've found out since that this apparent slow aging is pretty common with AS..

I was training a student employee on how to configure the BIOS settings on faculty computers and the screen came up and said "Phoenix Rom BIOS Copyright 1985-1988 Phoenix Technologies"

I looked at her and said "Hey that was copyrighted the same year I was born."

She looked at me and said "No way."

I said "Older or younger"

She said "Older, I thought you were 30"

I said "Nope, 25."

I'm almost 30 and if I were to go and purchase alcohol, I would still get carded. The post-mistress couldn't believe I was any older than 17 when she first saw me. I don't see it.

I am frequently mistaken for being about 10 years younger than I am. At my new job I surprised my co-workers numerous times with my age. One thought I was 15 (even though it was a school day and that is too young to be hired), another person thought 17 or 18 (as I was not in school) and put me at having just graduated high school, as opposed to finished college and having pursued post-graduated studies.

Same here, everywhere I go, everybody think I'm a kid. They openly talk about it at work, like I'm not there. Commenting on kids working there. Annoying as hell, like nobody would take me seriously.

In person, people mistake me as younger. Online (can't see me), they mistake me as being older, sometimes even 15-20+ years older than I am.

Oh well.

I'm 35 and still get carded when I buy alcohol.

I think this is a common thing among Aspies, because (remember this is just what i believe) of the innocence of Aspies conpared to our age, and just our faces seem to look younger.

I do mistaken for a freshman by my fellow students who have only met me this year abd dont know how long ive been in high school

Yes, it's due to the simple facts that I don't wear makeup like other females my age and I have a healthy lifestyle.

I am 38 and look 38.

I used to pick up this kid from school when his parents were working and I was about 23. One time a teacher asked me if I was a student. It wouldn't be such a big deal if this was a high school kid, but I was at an elementary school when this happened.

Yeah.....I get that too. I'm 29 and many people will think I'm only 20 lol......now if only I didn't smoke cigarettes

People are often surprised when they find out how old I really am.

But, to be fair, I'm often surprised when I remember how old I really am.

i am sure that there are millions of people who would answer "yes", and millions that would say "no" and billions of people who were undecided. i could not be bothered to verify their assertions individually, so i would just disengage and retreat to my simple world again where all is well.