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24 May 2013, 9:24 am

When you're at school/college how do you ask for someone's phone number at the right moment. When I finally muster up enough courage to ask I often interrupt conversation by asking so the question is in turn not fully asked. I sort of mutter a few words and then realise I've interupted and shut up. When is the best moment to ask?



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24 May 2013, 11:20 am

The best moment is when you're already thinking about asking and that person is available to talk to.



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24 May 2013, 11:51 am

Asking someone if uses Whatsapp is a good way. Other way is just asking his number directly.



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24 May 2013, 1:02 pm

"Hey, mind giving me your number so I can call you?"



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24 May 2013, 1:42 pm

"whats best way to keep in touch with you if you want to keep chatting?" twitter??? facebook?? myspace?? email address??

this i think sounds better, because who knows if they don't want to tell you their number but will think about it later on as they get to know you better


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24 May 2013, 2:48 pm

The best way is to have a reason to need it, like an event you're both going to or a project you're doing together. "Yeah, I'll have to find out about that so...hey, give me your number so I can let you know later, OK?"


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24 May 2013, 3:59 pm

AnonymousFishyAsp wrote:
I often interrupt conversation by asking so the question is in turn not fully asked. I sort of mutter a few words and then realise I've interupted and shut up


Oh yeah, I totally know what you mean there! I've done it many times, though not with phone numbers.

The way I've had NTs do it to me included "hey, do I have your phone number? (no) what is it?" and "(shoves phone into my hands) hey, punch your number into here!" I usually only ask when there's a clear reason for me to have it, usually because we're going to meet up somewhere. That probably doesn't help you, though, if you want to get it just to chat to them.



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24 May 2013, 9:29 pm

"Hey, can I have your number?" whenever there isn't an active conversation.
It's really as easy as that.



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25 May 2013, 12:38 pm

Thanks people. It seems just a case of doing it and not thinking about it to much beforehand!



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25 May 2013, 2:06 pm

AnonymousFishyAsp wrote:
When you're at school/college how do you ask for someone's phone number at the right moment. When I finally muster up enough courage to ask I often interrupt conversation by asking so the question is in turn not fully asked. I sort of mutter a few words and then realise I've interupted and shut up. When is the best moment to ask?


Make sure she enjoys her company and she's enjoying the conversation.
Then, after you talk for a bit say something like "Hey, I have to go somewhere soon. Can I call you?"



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27 May 2013, 2:52 am

I generally would only ask for phone numbers if it is related to serious stuff like work or organising events, cause some people are not always willing to share their numbers.

If it was for a friend, I would only ask for the number of a friend if it was to honestly get directions to a movie theatre, event, or just to RSVP to a party.



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