Dealing with a conflict

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Hi:

I had gone to a birthday party this afternoon for a friend and there happened to be another girl who I recently had a falling out with. For the most part, she and I did not talk to one another while I had managed to make a few new connections. I also talked to my other current friends for a while.

There were a few times where she had a few outbursts at me today when I was not even talking to her.

1. I made a joke about having a club for a certain name instead of a party and she said "That's not nice it's your friend's birthday
2. I told two other people that I needed a soda to get hyper so I could play some games "No you can't get hyper."
3. I had gotten the birthday guest a pillsbury doughboy key chain and touched his tummy since he likes to do voices. She goes
"That's not appropriate."
4. I was talking to others when she just blurted out, "You and me are NOT friends. Did you hear me?"


I said "I heard you the first time Cruella De'vil"

"If you call me anymore names I will hit you."

I then called her a child and she had happened to zip it and go and whine about it to the birthday host. She also kept drooling all over him while trying to stab me emotionally. "Oh you are my brother and my best friend. I don't like her on the other hand. She was calling me a child and it hurts my feelings."


Other areas of conflict: She has an issue with twisting your words around and lying about you behind your back to attention.

How do I deal with people like this in the future?

Avoid them. If that doesn't work, kill them with kindness.

That is just it. Avoiding each other does seem to work. The problem though are two things

I will be talking to my other friends along with all of the above but she will often have an emotional outburst in this very angry tone. I know this is not Autism but it has to be some other mental disorder.


She also has a problem with lying about other people who she gets mad at.