People who can really annoy you!! !

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Well there is this girl that I know.I wouldn't call her a close friend anymore because she is good friends wit someone who use to bully me.The girl keeps asking to meet up but nothing happens its like her catchphrase! I compare meeting up wit friends and that goes ahead.

Like seriously wtf this really annoys me.The girl has contacted me again 2day wit her catchphrase 'we should meet up soon'

When I say something I plan to go ahead wit it unless it relates to family or something really important.

Do I say anything without sounding blunt because I am just tired of this crap.I just don't get some people.

I kind of want to see her but my best friend and her don't speak anymore so I am in the middle. The worse thing is I don't trust her (well there is very few people I do trust)

it's a mess!

People who criticize me for doing something that I haven't done yet, or who criticize me for not doing something that I have done already.

People who are afraid of socially awkward people owning any sort of weapon.
People who make enjoying dressing up the way you want impossible to do.
People who are mean to homeless folk.
People who complain about a movie when it is funny when it is supposed to be serious, or are mad because I am laughing at a scary movie, I mean I am still enjoying it right?
People who are afraid of campfires.
People who make blacksmithing impossible in a suburban setting, when we have a full lot empty to use.
People who make fun of people who have hobbies like collecting knives by acting afraid of them.
People who think they are right just because you are an aspie, and you can't be right.
People who make racial jokes.
People who make life hard for veterans.
People who play the general from the armchair role.
People who waste money on completely ridiculous things.
People who horde certain raw materials to make them expensive.
People who make certain learning a matter of approval rather than actual learning.
People who made open carrying weapons of any kind impossible for the rest of us.
People who complain about eating animals, in any amount of complaining.
People who don't think hunters love animals just as much as everyone else.
People who think farming cows is more humane than hunting, when hunting is the only way to give the animal a fair chance to escape.
People who say owning exotic animals is wrong, not because I want to, but because when I buy something I own it now.
People who discriminate against socially awkward people.
People who hate hunting, then eat farm slaughtered meat every day.

It sounds like you got it right when you said it's like her catchphrase. Given the fact that she is friends with someone who used to bully you and you don't trust her, I would be cordial to her but not have the intention of getting together with her. If you really want to get together with her, maybe only do it if she sets a date and time. Even then, with you not trusting her and she is friends with a person who bullied you, it does not sound like a good idea.

people who annoy me - demanding people who think they are going to order me about.

Overtly happy people.

Not that they try to be irritating, but I can't fathom how anyone is so "bubbly" all the time.

People looking for "mothering" from me.
People who don't stand behind their opinions.
People who tell you what they assume you want to hear.
People who make no effort to help themselves.

People who think that they're better and smarter than others because they have the ''right'' opinion. It makes them a better person.

People who have problems but never want to try any solution- before they do anything they think of a million reasons and excuses they shouldn't fix an issue and it will still all be someone else's fault.

People who get extremely pissed and hateful over literally nothing.

People who you work with and who don't do a thing and get away with it by being charming, doing JUST enough to not be kicked out of the group and who get a nice grade for free.

People who think other people are stupid or should change because they themselves are unable to understand those people.

People who have no clue about a subject and then start lecturing me about it.

People who assume they know and understand what my issues and characteristics are as they're ''professionals'' and read Wikipedia on asperger's. And they just assume and when I correct them they still know better.

I have realised now that the we should meet up catchphrase is there to irritate me and it is working.My issues wit my Aspergers has always been relating to social things.This is why it's making me more annoyed wit her.

Sad to say but I think she is a b***h and is being controlled by the girl who use to bully me.It has taken me 5 years to realise this.

Why can't making friends and maintaining them b easy to do.Why does it have b so complicated!

Clients at work. I don't care about what they want.
People who repeat themselves for aggrandisement.
People who make a big deal about things.
People who expect me to be making a big deal about things.

I'm not going to list myriad items for the sake of seeming impressive with my list of pet peeves.

Let's just say: people annoy me to no end.

I think most kind of people that bother me are mentioned here by others.

What bothers me much more than it should, is people who laugh when they don't say anything funny. And I don't mean people trying to pull off a joke and failing, then laughing. I mean people who say a random statement and laugh. I remember a friend of my mom once literally saying "So I went to the bakery" and then laughing out loud.

People who think they have special rights to get into your things. A guy at work started rummaging in my toolbox and when I told him that's my toolbox, he just said he needed pliers. He knew it was my toolbox yet he was snooping in it. I just don't get it.

After all that.. you want to see her?! It explains the miscommunication. She probably "kind of" wants to see you too but neither of you want it bad enough to actually make it happen. You probably have very good reason to not push harder to set something concrete so maybe it's best that you didn't.

It IS a catch phrase.. often times. If it never amounts to anything, give her a catch phrase in return. This is what I used to say,
"Sure. Lets play it by ear for now." .. which means, "possibly" but lets make plans "another time".. which often doesn't happen.

-or-
"We should meet up soon."
"I know. We've both been so busy." End of conversation. She hasn't initiated anything further than that so she really doesn't mean what she says. You "kind of want to hang with her" because she's giving you attention. Take that attention from someone who actually cares.

OP: I agree with the poster above in that she may not want to meet up...but it's something that she may say just to be nice to you.

Where do you run into this girl? Try to avoid going to places where she will be. If you avoid her as much as possible, she will forget about you.

I don't think it's healthy to that - just to avoid dealing with a challenge. I think she brings you opportunity to fine-tune a skill you're not good at.

Homophobic people
People who make racist jokes
People who turn every situation into their own personal drama
My friends annoy me by being too indecisive and flaky, but I still put up with that
People who never follow their heart, ever
People who think there's only one kind of intelligence
People who look down on those who don't have a career or make enough money to have a middle class lifestyle
Hardcore conspiracy theorists who think sceptics are sheeple
people who don't like sceptics just because they disagree with them (I don't care if you believe in paranormal stuff, etc and you shouldn't care that I don't believe in it.)
People who think doing gross things like spitting is rock n roll, or those who brag about puking from drinking too much, like that's a rock n roll thing to do.
People who won't ever make plans or take any responsibilities because they're too rock n roll for that.
People with prescriptive ideas about gender.
People who have contempt for drug addicts and mentally ill people.

at work. new people who think they know the job better than you, and it's only their first day.
old people in front of the line, that has some expire coupons and have to wait for the clerk to solve
the coupon problem.
people who want to fight other, for no reason at all. just because they have ''daddy issues''
or some issue unrelated to person they want to fight.
people who stink
people who are racist, homophobic, bigots
people who uses evolutionary psycolgist to promote sexism.