People avoiding me

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When I say people I mean the paintball team I'm on. I'm fairly sure they based on several facts:
-They created a new team forum and never informed me. I only found out by listening to a conversation between two "team members." When I asked a senior member about it he denied the fact they created a new forum. I asked my cousin, who is also on the team, and he confirmed they did have a new forum and would ask if I could join. I never got an answer.
-Several members have blocked me on Facebook.
-They kept me as a junior member well past the time I should have became a full member.
-They never inform me about team events then give me crap when I don't show up.

I could go on for a long time about my problems with them. Should I confront them on this, just deal with it, or leave them the team while I'm ahead?

You can try to confront them as a last ditch effort, but I'd find a new team. Why stick around to be continuously ostracized? That's not worth your time.

Should have mentioned this in the original post. If I leave the team they will bad mouth me (like they do to anyone that leaves the team that they don't like) and I won't be able to join any other local teams. So basically I'm done playing paintball if I leave until I move out of this state.

Do you know this for a fact? Do you know anyone on other teams who you could casually question about open slots? Is paintball worth those headaches?

Whatever your decision, those people seem like real jerks.

I ended up leaving at about 3:00PM and they started bad mouthing me two hours later. They can burn for all I care.

I think that was a good decision.
Did you try joining a different paintball group ?