Am I Curse or Something

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This was just something on my mind right now. I feel like no matter how genuine I am. I can be genuinely happy, people don't like me. I'll never understand this, people I met who I thought I connected with, once I am no longer around them or doing things with them they just stop contacting me. I have a sister she's completely opposite to me, she makes friends easily and has lots of friends. She leaves a certain event with said friends and they text her back after said event is over with. I make what I considered close acquaintances and think we're cool. They contact me, when I'm doing certain said events with them, but then I just get silence afterwards.

I best explain this. I was kicked out of my relatives house for some strange reason. They said that I was to much of a wild card. That I didn't care about my family, etc. I was living down on the South side of Colorado with some people who I thought were acquaintances. Turns out they were using me for my money, but that's a different story. While living on the South side I met with some acquaintances. One said acquaintance I confided in a lot. He texted me a lot and was kind to me. We texted each day.

When said acquaintances kicked me out of their house when I was having financial issues due to my job, I went back to the North side to live with my relatives again. And this acquaintance stopped contacting me. He simply disappeared a ghost in the wind.

You know I was so happy. I thought I had finally made it in this world. I was making acquaintances, close connections. I felt for the first time that I was human. But like everything, people in my contact list of my phone become ghost of a past. They don't contact me, don't say hey. If I pester them, sometimes it feels like I'm being noisy. All I end up with again is a lot of familial contacts again and again and again.

Same thing at work though too. I could be super friendly, super genuine, and happy. But everyone doesn't like me. I don't know why. I am being genuinely my happy self. I am being human or what could only be human to me. They say I'm bossy or controlling or that I am not very nice. But I was smiling at your god damn face, I was laughing with you. My ex manager disliked me. My ex coworkers shame me.

I feel like I'm cursed. That I am forever to be alone and forever to feel inhuman.

Let alone I don't make connections with people easily because I lack empathy or sympathy for them. Certain things I know I should feel empathy and should console them with something nice, but I can't. I just see them as excuses.

Like for example when people say, they are worn out. Do you know how often I push myself to my limits before collasping from exhaustion even when I'm worn out? It's an excuse it may be true or not, but tell me the truth don't beat around the bush. I'm worn out = I don't want to talk to you or something better than that.

I feel like I am losing my realit of what it means to be human. I just feel like this inhuman creature that exist in this world alongside them. I feel disconnected, frustrated, and not really sure what I am doing wrong in my life to push people away. When I do everything right. I'm nice, I don't say super controversial things, I smile when they smile, I laugh when they laugh. Maybe my mistake is that I'm just a robot mimicking emotions.