Friendship dilemma

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Recently I got an email from a friend who I havn't seen or talked to in a year basically saying OMG we havn't talked in ages we should meet up in the next few weeks it's been so long.I was ready to move on in my life because I just thought she didn't want to talk to me anymore for no apparent reason. I don't understand is why now? I know her from school and I saw her as a close friend so the message made me sad. Part of me thinks she is all talk and won't meet up wit me.I don't know if she is being genuine and wants to meet me and see how I am or just be nosey. I wanted to b honest with her and say I thought our friendship ended because we haven't talked or met up in so long but I wasn't brave enough to do that.

What should I do?

I think you need to figure out whether or not you want to pick things up where the friendship left off. If you do, then set something up and see what happens. Otherwise, just give a polite "thanks, but no thanks".

I personally would try her. Ask her out and see what happens chanses are she sais yes then makes up excuses and doesn't show up, she sais yes and shows up, she says no making excuses, she sais no. In any case you would have an answer. If she shows up you can see where it leads and take a decision on how to procede or not procede.

But this, after what MjrMajorMajor said