I'm waaay dahn sarf in the throbbing metrollopes of Old London Town so of limited social potential as far as geography goes.
But I just thought I'd post in order to wish you both well in your search for a wider social circle: May you find good, dependable and kind-hearted friends wherever you turn, and may your developing and deepening bond of friendship give added purpose to your lives, unqualified joy in your hearts, and (considered from a self-interested and inherently autistic stance) may your modes and manners of communication be enhanced by the interaction, to the ultimate ongoing, developing and hopefully ever-increasing social and emotional benefit of all involved.
I have to ask though ... what's "pen and paper"? is it some kind of coded or oblique reference to something else, or is it -- as I suspect a straightforward declaration that you enjoy impromptu and equipment free games such as noughts-and-crosses, hangman and battleships? Or perhaps Sudoku or crosswords (either plain or cryptic)?
Or is declaring an interest in pen and paper some sort of coded signal to fellow 'swingers' on the internet, like having pampas grass growing prominently in your front garden?
I WILL NOT SLEEP UNLESS YOU ANSWER MEEEEEE