Day 2

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With no contact. This friendship things is difficult, and honestly I've opened up too far. I doubt I will ever have their respect or be treated as I deserve to be. I added them to filters and blocked them on everything. I can't be friends with someone who no longer respects me as a human being despite how nice they are. That and things they did that were patently not friend things to do make me not WANT them around me regardless of how nice they profess to be. Some things I can't really forgive myself or them for, it's going to be a hard few months getting over this. Day 2, almost 72 hours now though. It's a struggle to break contact but it must be done for my self respect.

Sorry you are going through this.

That's what happens with things like "opening up". They will take advantage of that. I don't consider those who are disrespectful "nice".
Like the saying says: Better to be alone than in bad company.

I can believe she is young and stupid, tossing things around even emotions. She admitted to that, she isn't evil she just isn't a right pick as a friend.

Ok well Day 5 going on 6 and generally just pissed when I do think of them. Knowing they cheated on their ex by dating outside before leaving makes it impossible to respect them. Knowing how much they keep hidden just everyday stuff after saying we're close friends I don't even know anything about them. We don't communicate well at all and they just wouldn't be a good friend after all this. Just sick of thinking about them and want them forgotten. Spent last couple days with barely a though maybe next week will be better.

Oh wow KoK, I thought I was the only one who counted days when going NC. In one case, I decided to keep a log for 30 days, made a booklet with a page for each day; I had this quiet certainty that I'd feel better at day 15 than I did at day 3. It was like withdrawal from a physical dependency.

Anything I can do to be of support?

I just count up from when I last posted really. I found the idea on another site, figured it was worth a shot to see how I felt as time goes by. Not really anything you can do no, if I had some friends to hang out with and have fun go meet women that would help. I'm just really sick of being manipulated and having others who are too immature with their own feelings make use of mine.

Day 7. Broke it :/ Not sure how to feel, said goodbye and blocked them. Asked them not to contact me anymore that we don't have the same concepts on friendship. Won't really be over it until I can get busy though. Never be sure I made the right choice to contact but I know it's the right one to say goodbye.