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Summer_Twilight
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03 May 2014, 10:48 am

Have any of you witnessed this scenario?

You seem to talk with a random stranger and the conversation goes well. Then you appear to say something normal like the weather is going to be X, I really like Y, I heard Z. You are not even talking politics or religion nor are you calling them names.

I was talking to a girl last night on my way out of a train station. We were talking about the weather and how it was much cooler yesterday and that it was nice. I then mentioned that it was going to warm up and that it is going to be 75 degrees F. She got disgusted and said "Don't tell me that! Have a nice day." She walked out one of the exits and moved as far away from me as she could.

Does anyone else get baffled by that? People are so complicated. It is almost impossible to have a conversation with someone anymore without them getting offended over stupid things.



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03 May 2014, 10:59 am

That just means that she doesn't like warm weather, and that she was looking for a way out of the conversation. I highly doubt that she was offended. Was she a "random stranger"? If so, that's part of the reason she did that, as most strangers don't particularly want to have lengthy conversations with other strangers.



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03 May 2014, 12:49 pm

Summer_Twilight wrote:
Have any of you witnessed this scenario?

You seem to talk with a random stranger and the conversation goes well. Then you appear to say something normal like the weather is going to be X, I really like Y, I heard Z. You are not even talking politics or religion nor are you calling them names.

I was talking to a girl last night on my way out of a train station. We were talking about the weather and how it was much cooler yesterday and that it was nice. I then mentioned that it was going to warm up and that it is going to be 75 degrees F. She got disgusted and said "Don't tell me that! Have a nice day." She walked out one of the exits and moved as far away from me as she could.

Does anyone else get baffled by that? People are so complicated. It is almost impossible to have a conversation with someone anymore without them getting offended over stupid things.


You didn't do anything wrong. That is my example of over sensitive people. They get offended over nothing. Even NTs have that trouble too but I think the difference is they don't take it as personal as we do because of our social deficits and being aware of our condition so we always assume we were at fault when really, it was that other person at fault.


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03 May 2014, 1:14 pm

Lol if they lived in our heads they would probably cry or cuss the daylights at themselves for being such crabs.