Hanging out with new friends when you're both on your own

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Does anyone get anxiety about this as to what the other person thinks when you're out both on your own at a bar or club? I may or may not be hanging out with someone in a weekend or two, and I'm just worried that because I'm mostly a loner, that I'm going to be seen as a loser. That isn't me saying loners are losers, but that's the way I might be perceived (probably not, she's lovely).

Sometimes I feel that ( some) people expect you to have a small entourage with you if you go out to hang out with them in the evening, and if that's not the case, something is up.

It's not I don't have acquaintances or friends, but that I'm mostly one-on-one with people.