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28 May 2014, 1:57 pm

i have lost my job and its just me whole day alone

there are some ladies who come for evening walk and just sitting in the garden

but i am scared of approaching them and being socially rejected again
any rejection now will shatter me totally

what should i do i want to make some friends

please give some ideas how i can approach this ladies
and how not to come across weird around them

they are mostly from lower middle class section of society
and they are not well qualified also


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28 May 2014, 9:18 pm

I am not sure what you mean by they are not well qualified. But if you want to talk to them maybe you can put yourself in a situation where you casually run into them. You could be out going for a walk and maybe the first time you walk by them you could just say hello and at least they will know you exist that way. Maybe after that eventually they will talk to you more.



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29 May 2014, 12:27 am

wowiexist wrote:
I am not sure what you mean by they are not well qualified. But if you want to talk to them maybe you can put yourself in a situation where you casually run into them. You could be out going for a walk and maybe the first time you walk by them you could just say hello and at least they will know you exist that way. Maybe after that eventually they will talk to you more.

not well qualified means im graduate they are just undergraduate
thats not the issue
but everyone prefers to talk with some jolly talkative person
but im kind of depressed and less talkative
so i feel shaky to approach them
eventually they will choose someone smarter and talkative over me
and avoid me
please guide


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