How difficult is it for you to make friends?

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Quite.

I strongly dislike most people that I've met in real life,and I'm judged as "weird".


I just can't relate to people my age in my area well.


-SpaceCase

It's impossible for me to make friends because no one likes me in this town.

I used to have lots of friends, dont know why. Now however I am hardly ever talking to any of them because I cant find anything to talk to them about since all they talk about is lame ass sports, band, or drama.

friends? no not any friends here i'm antisocial basically

I find it very difficult to initiate a friendship, but once I've made a friend, that's it all is good. It's just doing it that I really struggle with.

Easy to deal with people one-on-one. Even my best friend, the dynamic is thrown off when even one extra is thrown into the mix.

VERY.

1) I'm weird as hell
2) I can't talk to people very well and end up hell quiet as well.

It's tough, but luckily I have made some friends. I don't have any friends at school really, but I have some good friends outside of it that help me get by. I just don't understand casual conversations, or how to get people to like me. The only indication I have of people liking me is if they keep saying hi to me and chatting when we see each other, and if we do things together outside of where I met them.

i dont think people want to make frineds with me only because they probably figure i have some already

No one would be friends with me because I talk about FF too much.

I usually have alot of trouble making friends or initiating friendships. When I make friends things usually go great for a period of time say six months and then something happens and the friendship breaks down. This is a recurring pattern.

I very seldom make friends

When I do it is just pure luck.

As a kid I just wanted friends to to things related to my special intrests with. They saw me as weird and the kid who talked about Lion King and animals too much. And as something to make fun of and beat up. I always relalited and would slug them but they wouldn't because they knew how to be sneaky and do it when the teacher wan't looking. I never really cared much for making friends because when I talked to people they seemed so stupid. They never knew about the things I did let alone like the things I did so why should I like them? There's this 12 year old next door who constantaly comes over and wants me to hang out with her and do stuff I hate doing such as riding bikes ("can't" is not in her language and she must be blind because she's seen me crashing into trees and people's fences and constantly has to tell me to stop when cars come. You'd think she'd learn.)

I will NOT hang out with her and her dumb NT preteen friends and she knows that. But then I would be lost with another socialy twenty year old who has no social defects.

I am so adept at making friends...that I don't have any , not in real life anyway. It takes a lot for me to consider someone a friend. I suppose I have a messed up idea of what a friend should be, so really, I only consider one person in my life to be a friend at this point and they are an internet friend.

If I trust someone enough to be their friend, to share my secrets, then I really love the person. I tended to have a number of buddies, people that I get along with well, but wouldn't risk my life for. Now I don't. I think that the only way that I made friends was through others - every now and then a sociable person would enter my life, take a liking to me (for whatever silly reason) and expand my circle of aquantainces.