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Jamesy
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03 Mar 2015, 5:43 am

What does it mean if your not 'bothered' about someone?



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03 Mar 2015, 9:09 am

It means you don't think about the person too much. You don't let the person affect your life.



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03 Mar 2015, 10:03 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
It means you don't think about the person too much. You don't let the person affect your life.





Even if that person once meant a lot to you?



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03 Mar 2015, 10:05 am

Then you are "bothered" by it.

But you have to move on from that person, if that person wants to move on.

It's better for you, and for that other person.