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zeldapsychology
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12 Mar 2015, 4:42 pm

Sept.-Feb. College experience so about 6 months met a nice guy around my age and a professor that I chatted with nearly daily. Found out around Feb. she didn't like this behavior and I did a j/k (joke) about violence this so called "friend" told the school I was suspended for a year!

3 month Mcdonald's job nice coworker friend upset her the topic of "sexual harassment" got brought up which by using Google YES GOOGLE since I didn't understand social norms or what "sexual harassment" was and nearly got fired. I decided to quit.

College experience 2010-2014 MADE ZERO FRIENDS!

WP member since 07- now a few friends Thanks WP

Got to know one of my WP friends Chris' family a girl named Sam and guy named Garrison and played with those 2 on Playstation Sept-Feb. Upset Garrison and Sam his sister got pissed at me NOW BOTH are not on my Playstation friends list.

NOW!

End Jan. NEW Playstation friend. Knew barely a MONTH new friend BEGGED for my pic. and phone number so he could text "Hey he's on lets play a level" Uh I asked for help in a 6 person mission the 4 other guys would = 5 Friend would = 6 TOTAL UH NOPE the other 3 brought in 1 more. :-( So my friend was unable to join and seemed pissed. He has not responded to texts and suddenly he's not on my friends list anymore. IMO Not my fault the 4 strangers invited a 5th person.

So uh? Based off examples above I feel WHY should I bother making friends? Outside of being a child years and making friends in Elementary school during Homeschool 5th grade till now NONE.

Perhaps the "family are your only friends" line is true????



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12 Mar 2015, 5:47 pm

Yup.
Serious butt-hurt.

Don't give random dudes your personal information, McFly!! !

Be nice, and let people know that you have social "issues" I guess. But keep some distance.


Oh and Zelda, you have been on WP starting 2008, not 2007. Silly!



Here's the secret to me faking my social abilities for so long:

http://www.amazon.com/I-Know-You-Are-Ly ... +are+lying


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12 Mar 2015, 6:22 pm

Random people on the internet are as a rule immoral, it seems. I prefer to meet my friends in person.



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12 Mar 2015, 6:25 pm

Did you say that you prefer to meet friends in PRISON????


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