Why do NTs have the need to make so many fake friends?

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15 Apr 2015, 6:26 pm

So me and my friend were planning to made a private minecraft server with 3-4 people and I was like "ok cool we won't have to deal with dem kids :) ".

Then, when the servers is done, I ask him "So who's gonna be on the server with us?" and then he tells me "About 20 people" Then I'm like "wuut did your really bring your hoard of idiots" He got mad at me afterwards telling me to "WATCH OUT IF YOU WANNA KEEP YOUR LAST FRIENDS!! !! !! !!". So I told him to piss off and be happy with his douchebaggey idiots



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15 Apr 2015, 11:00 pm

I'm not sure what to say to this.

I agree it was inconsiderate of him to agree with you to make it a small, private server for you and your closest friends only for him to invite about 20 people to join you in the server.

If he was going to turn around and do something like that he should have talked to you about it first.

I don't think you should have insulted his gaming friends like that, though.

Have you met these 20 friends yet, or did you just insult them without talking to any of them yet?

He was right to defend his friends like that. If you're going to insult his friends like that than it is perfectly okay if he doesn't want to hang out with you anymore.

So, yeah. My advice: Don't insult anyone's friends.

But I would have been annoyed as well if it happened to me.

Your question about why N.T's have so many fake friends?

A lot of N.T's have a high number of friendships. Like, really fr*cken high.

Even 'shy, awkward' N.T's still manage to have their own little 20+ group of friends...

Don't worry about Quantity, just quality.

Make good friends who treat you well and treat them well back.



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16 Apr 2015, 1:31 am

Do you mean to say that the twenty invites were fake friends? How do you know that?

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
He got mad at me afterwards telling me to "WATCH OUT IF YOU WANNA KEEP YOUR LAST FRIENDS!! ! ! ! ! ! !". So I told him to piss off and be happy with his douchebaggey idiots


So did you lose your last friends :?:



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16 Apr 2015, 12:11 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
So me and my friend were planning to made a private minecraft server with 3-4 people and I was like "ok cool we won't have to deal with dem kids :) ".

Then, when the servers is done, I ask him "So who's gonna be on the server with us?" and then he tells me "About 20 people" Then I'm like "wuut did your really bring your hoard of idiots" He got mad at me afterwards telling me to "WATCH OUT IF YOU WANNA KEEP YOUR LAST FRIENDS!! ! ! ! ! ! !". So I told him to piss off and be happy with his douchebaggey idiots


because they are shallow and feeble-minded

focus on real friends and ignore the NT losers



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16 Apr 2015, 9:31 pm

I wouldn't call them fake friends.

They are people who share the same love for an online game.
They aren't friends, they are just online buddies...

I would have talked it out with him and then maybe pull the plug on the server (if it was possible).
I wouldn't have told him off.


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16 Apr 2015, 9:33 pm

Me and him were friends since 3rd grade then he had to become a douchebag and start to hangout with loud, immature 10th graders when he just got out of his 13's



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16 Apr 2015, 9:35 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Me and him were friends since 3rd grade then he had to become a douchebag and start to hangout with loud, immature 10th graders when he just got out of his 13's

Are you guys in teenagers?


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16 Apr 2015, 9:37 pm

xenocity wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Me and him were friends since 3rd grade then he had to become a douchebag and start to hangout with loud, immature 10th graders when he just got out of his 13's

Are you guys in teenagers?

We're 14



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16 Apr 2015, 9:40 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
xenocity wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Me and him were friends since 3rd grade then he had to become a douchebag and start to hangout with loud, immature 10th graders when he just got out of his 13's

Are you guys in teenagers?

We're 14

That explains everything.

a lot of people go through the phase that your friend is going through, it comes with being a teenager.


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16 Apr 2015, 9:44 pm

Whatever he can kill himself for all I care



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16 Apr 2015, 9:49 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Whatever he can kill himself for all I care

Don't say that...!

You should have a heart to heart talk with your friend and/or have someone mediate it.


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16 Apr 2015, 9:49 pm

xenocity wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Whatever he can kill himself for all I care

Don't say that...!

You should have a heart to heart talk with your friend and/or have someone mediate it.

No, I've had enough of helping him and getting treated like trash in return