Social mistakes you've made?

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I used to have a special interest in Psychology (more Criminology AKA criminal behavior Bundy/Dahmer serial killers etc.) and would write papers about them. I would go and find psychology research about *insert disorder psych issue* and question my PhD PSYCHOLOGY PROFESSOR on her opinion of this research. I would always throw her off loop. I then "pushed a student OMG! I can't believe I missed a class" I was a little emotional that day. This "push" was taken as a push her down and I was suspended for a week. When I did a school meeting with a Dean that Psych professor said "I crossed a teacher student line and needed a psych evaluation before returning on campus." I was Shocked PISSED she felt this we and I didn't know socially and didn't puck up any social cues. Looking back she OMG! Just gave birth Nov. and she was very social and friendly then Jan. she seemed cold to the questioning behavior. Hormone changes I guess (I don't know physically I don't have female parts can't get pregnant.)

Anyway! upset a "friend" said I know go postal! I joked LoL! ya shoot up the school LoL! aka JOKE! PEOPLE! I didn't even interpret socially what "postal" means I then got ANOTHER school dean meeting suspended for a year! and forever haunted wishing I could apologize to that professor and still sort of confused socially on the whole incident.

My return to college 2010-2014 getting a Bachelor Criminal Justice I socialized nearly ZERO with professors and was sad and missed that behavior dearly. Never got into Criminology CJ heavily again it's all law jail BS YAWN!

Another incident I would be excited and jump on an employee (no idea why.) eager excited to see them daily??? So I was CRUSHED emotionally when they had to quit to take care of there sick grandma. Also I was told I might be fired due to "sexual harassment issues" Had to go home and google this my social skills then and still are ZERO.


Looking back on both I've learned perhaps 1) was hormone differences? after 1 year suspension I heard the professor had been avoiding me since she didn't like my questions. 2) was a little too friendly I guess and jumping on peoples back is socially inappropriate and WEIRD!

Hope I don't mess up socially trying to get a job UGH!