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aretilda
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13 May 2015, 12:20 pm

I don't know what to say or anything. How do I make friends with girls online? What do I say? How do I get girls to reply?



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14 May 2015, 5:06 am

Do you actually just want to be friends though?

That is the question.

Or are you looking for women to befriend and chat to online in the hopes of meeting one to progress into an online relationship with?

I don't know you're story and I'm sorry for assuming that but this isn't the first time I've seen posts like this and known it meant "something else".

If you are looking for both male and female friends online I'd say make sure it's related to some shared interest specifically.

This can make it easier to find things to talk about (just talk about interests and gradually start talking more and more about other things and getting to know the other person better), and also keeps things exactly that - just two friends talking about their shared interest and being able to have lengthy online conversations about it.



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14 May 2015, 8:47 am

Outrider wrote:
Do you actually just want to be friends though?

That is the question.

Or are you looking for women to befriend and chat to online in the hopes of meeting one to progress into an online relationship with?

I don't know you're story and I'm sorry for assuming that but this isn't the first time I've seen posts like this and known it meant "something else".

If you are looking for both male and female friends online I'd say make sure it's related to some shared interest specifically.

This can make it easier to find things to talk about (just talk about interests and gradually start talking more and more about other things and getting to know the other person better), and also keeps things exactly that - just two friends talking about their shared interest and being able to have lengthy online conversations about it.


I'm interested in making friends with girls but I'm also open to more, I'll take anything I can get really. I'd like to be friends with them in person. I don't know anything about girls either, what interests girls? I don't really know how to start when I find a girl I want to befriend online. What do I say? I mostly have trouble starting conversations and breaking the ice. I have NLD Nonverbal Learning Disorder which is very closely related to Aspergers and is on the Autism spectrum.



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14 May 2015, 10:19 am

Nobody has any clues? NLD is nearly identical to Aspergers so you could give me advice on that basis and it would be accurate, you don't have to know anything about NLD.

I just need some help here with this.



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14 May 2015, 12:11 pm

aretilda wrote:
Outrider wrote:
Do you actually just want to be friends though?

That is the question.

Or are you looking for women to befriend and chat to online in the hopes of meeting one to progress into an online relationship with?

I don't know you're story and I'm sorry for assuming that but this isn't the first time I've seen posts like this and known it meant "something else".

If you are looking for both male and female friends online I'd say make sure it's related to some shared interest specifically.

This can make it easier to find things to talk about (just talk about interests and gradually start talking more and more about other things and getting to know the other person better), and also keeps things exactly that - just two friends talking about their shared interest and being able to have lengthy online conversations about it.


I'm interested in making friends with girls but I'm also open to more, I'll take anything I can get really. I'd like to be friends with them in person. I don't know anything about girls either, what interests girls? I don't really know how to start when I find a girl I want to befriend online. What do I say? I mostly have trouble starting conversations and breaking the ice. I have NLD Nonverbal Learning Disorder which is very closely related to Aspergers and is on the Autism spectrum.
if you dont know anything about girls, maybe best not to associate with them. learning girls is like learning how to use a car to drive around with. women are like cars that need to be driven and busy constant.oh and making friends with girls online wont help. there are mean ones out there. but good luck trying to make yourself out there.


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14 May 2015, 12:46 pm

autismthinker21 wrote:
if you dont know anything about girls, maybe best not to associate with them. learning girls is like learning how to use a car to drive around with. women are like cars that need to be driven and busy constant.oh and making friends with girls online wont help. there are mean ones out there. but good luck trying to make yourself out there.[/quote]

Unacceptable. If that were the case then the Human race wouldn't exist. I NEED to learn. And really trying to talk me out of it isn't going to work, I am determined to get a girlfriend or something, I want some girl friends.

I need help.



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14 May 2015, 1:11 pm

Why specifically girls? don't message them with just one word or try and flirt. Ask them things such as what music do they like or TV shows. What hobbies do they have and then tell them what you like.


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14 May 2015, 2:57 pm

starfox wrote:
Why specifically girls? don't message them with just one word or try and flirt. Ask them things such as what music do they like or TV shows. What hobbies do they have and then tell them what you like.


Having male friends simply doesn't interest me, no reason in particular. I love girls because they are such amazing and elegant beings. And I don't really get along with guys and I don't care. Girls are awesome.