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weather1man
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02 Nov 2005, 7:43 pm

There is this guy at my school and he is pretty cool. He is friendly to me and I asked if if he would want to come over. He siaed yes but never metioned it again and I asked 3 times. Any advice?



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02 Nov 2005, 8:09 pm

from what you said, he could be trying to say he doesn't want to, or he could be shy... I don't really know. I'm unclear as to what he said each time you asked him.


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02 Nov 2005, 10:10 pm

He said cool dude we should do that. We will talk later. While I here him invite another boy over.



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02 Nov 2005, 10:13 pm

weather1man wrote:
He said cool dude we should do that. We will talk later. While I here him invite another boy over.


Well u need to set a specific time. If he keeps saying that the times don't work, then you know he doesn't really want to and don't take that personally. I'm sure there are plenty of people that you don't want to do things with just because you don't think you're compatible.


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02 Nov 2005, 10:31 pm

Thanks for the advice :)