Friend leaving me out of convo about FB post

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jashley
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16 Jun 2016, 6:20 pm

I was sitting with my small group and the girl from my church who hid her Facebook post about moving from me showed some people her phone and was talking about a Facebook post she saw. When I asked about it, she just said I was just sharing something I saw on Facebook with them. When I asked what it was she wouldn't say and said it doesnt matter its not a big deal. I said I was just trying to be part of the conversation and she said it just didn't pertain to you and wouldn't make sense to you, and I have a different relationship with them. What is that supposed to mean? Why would she share it with them and not show me??
And also, I talked to her and apologized if I came off as being needy or making her feel scared to be herself around me for fear of hurting my feelings or offending me and making it hard to love me and said I felt like she didnt like me anymore and she said you are loved God is good, but wouldnt say whether she loved me because I was lovable and she loved me herself or if she was just trying to love me because God says to love me. When I tried to get her to say what she thinks of me and if she loved me like she did her other friends she kept turning it around to God loves you, yes I know but do you love me and do you want to be my friend. I feel like she doesnt even though she said she did because she said God is helping me love you and you have done nothing to make me love you, it is because I love God and am called by God to love you. So it feels like she is skirting around the issue and not actually saying she doesnt want to be friends with me because it shouldnt matter because God does.



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16 Jun 2016, 9:52 pm

She's very rude.



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17 Jun 2016, 5:51 pm

I would leave her alone .



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17 Jun 2016, 6:13 pm

I find nicer people in bars and clubs than in churches.

Drop her......



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18 Jun 2016, 10:29 am

What a weirdo.


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18 Jun 2016, 1:00 pm

She sounds like a bully.