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TheZachadoodle
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05 Aug 2016, 1:02 pm

Can everyone here promise me that you will give up on the stupid excuse that goes like:

"I have been in Vietnam and under the cage of the vietcong and in prison for 4 months and tortured."

I am going to be honest you look like an as*hole when you do that. That goes for anyone honestly.

It is much better to be looked at as stupid than go for the rudest and most crappy response ever. I admit my speech is still a bit somewhat dyslexic looking and sounding, but I am not going to use the classic: "I have been in Vietnam" excuse and start focusing on making a somewhat "rags ro riches story based on myself".

I am serious throughout your life you try two of those things everyone around you is going to look at you as if you are ret*d and as though you can't do anything.

Black guys laugh at their own jokes of being black and the same should be for Autistic people and not trying to be so dopey and sad about life because of speech problems.

I am getting closer to being actually attractive to women because I ditched thosr two excuses in my life and denied the opportunity of using them when it could come up.

Instead just respond as you classically dumb as you are like me and accept it.

Also don't do the god awful thing at all the times that is:

"I am better than that you can't tell me I am wrong!"

Okay yes some guy managed to get a high opportunity job or position while you are in the bottom. Woopie the f*****g do da day, move on and bear it.

Seriously black guys dealt with more and laugh at themselves and in fact a blind guy told me to enjoy life as it is as well.

At any moment you feel like complaining or arguing to "look cool". You are going to look like a douchebag regardless, seriously, REGARDLESS.



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05 Aug 2016, 1:16 pm

Excellent post. Aspergers syndrome may be tough, but it is not as we are like the severely mentally impaired.

Everyone here has the capacity for a productive and happy life. Its up to us to follow through!



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05 Aug 2016, 1:19 pm

???Hmmmmm... what teh heck are you talking about?!? 8O


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05 Aug 2016, 1:20 pm

Aspertastic424 wrote:
Excellent post. Aspergers syndrome may be tough, but it is not as we are like the severely mentally impaired.

Everyone here has the capacity for a productive and happy life. Its up to us to follow through!

Oh, I see, now.


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TheZachadoodle
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05 Aug 2016, 1:59 pm

This is from Family Guy and do not be like Spiderman in this situation.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HjI1-b2aGZw

Alright, I wish the best for you all.



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05 Aug 2016, 3:45 pm

There is a fine line in explaining the situation and making excuses on your autism towards everything such

1. Not working because of certain autism traits
2. Their sensory issues are too great
3. Too low functioning to learn social skills
4. They would not be able to understand



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05 Aug 2016, 3:46 pm

double post



TheZachadoodle
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05 Aug 2016, 5:29 pm

Not quite, because deaf and mute people know how to communicate without excuses.

Deaf people have it even worse because not only can they not hear their own speaking but also they have to speak in sign language which almost hardly anybody has figured out.

Let me tell you what the majority of everyone's situations are like here:

Put a Pakistanian car salesman in Switzerland after Switzerland had faced Subway bombings on the news.

Now the Pakistanian only speaks native Pakistan language and the Swede only speaks Dutch (correct me if you may).

The Pakistanian tries to explain to the Swede how the car works but the Swede bases the body language and aggression from what happened on the news and previous events.

So now because of the situation of no effective grammatical speech skills, the Swede is going to regardless think of that Pakistanian as a potential terrorist ironically even though it is offensive.

Where am I going with this?

You have to effectively be clear, there will be many instances where you may scream at a person who tries to understand your clarity and you may take it as a thing that no questions should ever be asked or brought up on what you were talking about.

Regardless in nature, you have to just say things, don't speak things, SAY things. Say things clearly, otherwise in many situations you are going to end up making a scene and being jealous of the many people that get to say things like:

"Ah man if I don't get rhis car I am going to kill myself."

YES IT IS UNDERSTANDABLE FOR NO ONE TO GET THE DAMN SENSE THAT WHEN YOU SAY THAT YOU PERFECTLY ARE NOT.

But, if you could just slow the hell down and quit trying to be some f*****g scientist to look smart and just accept your speech as dumb as it is and just try to openly define the sentences then maybe people would get it.


I am like all of you guys, moment I said that example I am frightened of everyone taking the context out of it like my past and setting myself up for failure, but guess what? I don't care because confused normal people have difficulties with everyone.


Notice of how I ramble and it is stressing you guys out.

Now then, you guys may do the same thing except race it.

I am typing this entire thing on my phone.

Anyone and even you the aspergers person yourself, hates it when you speak in a way that shows a huge open computer room and show fascination.

Everyone likes it when you have that entire 1970s computer room and mind you NASA's space mission controp was like this. Conpact and simple on a smartphone.

It is context. Plain and simple, context.



TheZachadoodle
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05 Aug 2016, 5:31 pm

Trust me I know how god awfully stupid tattle tellers are too.

This: OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HE SAID A BAD WORD.

Is more socially immature than you having difficulty explaining how a car works.



TheZachadoodle
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05 Aug 2016, 5:48 pm

To the admins and mods.

Had you pulled the OOOOOO I AM Telling! On my film set, when in fact you say worse things and words in your day to day life and emotions.

You would pack your bags and leave.

Because I am not having a Stalinistic Communistic Film Set.



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05 Aug 2016, 5:49 pm

Or one like the God awful Rome.