Feelings for a person I met in camp, and how to deal with th

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So I went to a coding camp for 14 to 24 year olds, and last night, I went out with a group of people from that camp. I started noticing that there was something about this girl that caught my eye. I slept on it, and today was the last day of camp, so I wanted to chat her up a bit more. We talked a tiny bit, but we were pretty mute. At the end of the day, I sat beside her to finish off some work, and then when the day was over, she got a taxi and went to the station. I told one of the other girls when walking back to the college to pick up our bags and she advised me to text her about some common interest (e.g. Pokemon Go) later in the evening.

We were in a massive queue on the motorway so I decided to text her whilst on the motorway (She gave me her Facebook and Instagram). When I tried to chat on Messenger, she didn't show up, and further checking pointed to her blocking me, which baffled me because there was no reason why she would do that. I could text her on Instagram but it seems to me that she doesn't use that account anymore.

What should I do from here as I have no idea where to go.

If she blocked you, she doesn't want to talk. It's rough but true. I don't know why she blocked you, but I honestly think you should give up at risk of coming off as creepy (something us Aspies are known to do).

Yes, definately.

Kid, you are 14. And the ones that are 14 and below with girlfriends, probably do not even have an actual girlfriend.

You may have this awful idelogy that gets bragged about.

The: "if you do not have a girlfriend in your childhood your life is going to plument in dying alone."

Dying alone happens to people like Hitler, not you.

Based on your replies, I have realised that girls are not the be all end all in my life and that I cannot let it become that. You have given me the willpower to stop pursuing not just this crush, but all the other ones that I've had, so I can focus on my studies and get good results that will enable me to go to a good uni and then a good job, and then everything else will fall into place

Thank you for your empowering, if brutally honest, posts!