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leozelig
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25 Jun 2017, 9:56 am

I have a real hard time ending messages, like texts and emails. I also don't know how to finish letters, and it's hard because I have pen pals. I guess in messages I feel like I have said everything I had to say, then I just want it to stop.

I also have a hard time saying much, in a reply. I used to have difficulties ending phone conversations, but now I just stay silent, say I don't know what else to say, or I say I have to get off the phone. I guess I could do the same with messages... How do you handle ending a message?



fselzr
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25 Jun 2017, 5:42 pm

I'm only saying that I want and that's all. If a person is for example is going to bed or going away, then I say good night and good bye. It's better to write short, but precise. In phone conversation, if I got all the informations, then I say something like thanks for help and see you or just ok I got to go and bye. If you said everything then it's another's person's turn or the end of conversation. Or a new question if you want to know more.



leozelig
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25 Jun 2017, 9:42 pm

fselzr wrote:
I'm only saying that I want and that's all. If a person is for example is going to bed or going away, then I say good night and good bye. It's better to write short, but precise. In phone conversation, if I got all the informations, then I say something like thanks for help and see you or just ok I got to go and bye. If you said everything then it's another's person's turn or the end of conversation. Or a new question if you want to know more.

I agree with everything you said. I wish it were that easy for me. I wish that conversation would just get to the freaking point too, without all the other stuff. I think I'm just self conscious and it makes it harder for me to deal with people.