what did I do wrong?

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So, back in november, I met a girl at an Aspie teen support group. I am also a girl. I got her number, and another dudes number. I never called her. I was ery busy for awhile. but then in march, she suddenly Text Messaged me. I was like, oh, wow, she remembered me and wanted to talk. She took forever to reply to me, after each message...but anyway i asked her if she wanted to hangout sometime, maybe go to the mall. We both had spring break. So she said yes. I wasn't sure wether ti would be that wednesday or that thursday, because I had made plans already. So wednesday comes, and my other plans had fizzled out. So I text her, and ask if she wants to do it that day. She got very weird. She suddenly was like, "well, how about we meet at the mall, and then later that night you can sleep over!" I hardly know her. So I thought about and didn't reply for awhile. Then a bit later she messages me saying "Maybe we should just plan another day to do this so we can see how things work with us." I was like Huh? whats supossed to work? it's just two girls going to the mall together. I was like, Ok... so then about a week later, she texts me again. She was in math class and wanted to know what i was doing I told her I was playing with my dog. She goes "don't you go to insert random highschool i've never head of hear?" and I was like "no. I'm homeschooled." and she was like "have you always had a dog?" and I told her about my dog, and asked about her pets. and she was like "you remember I have two dogs. You met them." and I was confused. and then she goes "just to be sure this is Kayla right?" No i'm not kayla. not even close. and I was like "no...this is Emelia." I don't know how she thought I was someone else. it should say my name when she texted me. I felt really bad. because I thought someone had remembered me, and thought it would be nice to hang out with me. instead she thought I was someone else, and I wasted a good month talking to her. she never wrote back.

Ahhhh that would be awfull ouch that would be really hurtfull. although i have had worse in the past, it still must have hurt a fair bit.

It really did. and I was having trouble with friends again at that time so...I feel sorta let down.

That's a big owch!
If she tries to contact you again, ignore her.

Sounds like a first rate space unit. Whoever heard of text messaging somebody without checking to see who the hell your texting? Sorry that happened to you. Must be frustrating and disappointing. But maybe this person is very scattered and superficial?

Thats pretty funny, at least i think so. If you still want to get to know her, why not use what happened as conversation, the month is only wasted if you dont want to get to know her anymore.