Shocked when people get what they deserve

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I am shocked when someone who was horrible to me gets what they deserve. I'm used to people just skating through life with no consequences for their crappy behavior. When people do suffer consequences, it shocks me. Do you feel this way too?

I’m not shocked when people who have wronged me get what they deserved.

If anything, it reinforces my belief in a higher power.

When people are mean to me, it always looks like an act of justice in and of itself, so it's hard to think they deserve any ill consequences themselves.

I prefer people to learn something after they've been punished, so they don't reoffend

I have hoped for it in my current apartment but no such luck. In fact just the other day me and my boyfriend got up and planned to meet up with some people for a table top game we've been playing. But someone smashed one of the back windows in my boyfriends car so instead we had to deal with that loveliness.

We suspect it could be the teenager who lives in our aparment building who has been doing little things seemingly in retaliation for me and my boyfriend not bumming her cigarettes. I get the impression she's like 14 or 15...I mean I hate I started smoking cigarettes so I don't want to give a teen cigarettes....it would have been better if I did not start smoking so yeah I don't want to encourage it. But yeah since me and my boyfriend refused her cigarettes it seems she's been being intentionally nasty. Like for a bit she was blasting music on her phone whenever she went by our front door, and at one point even took me and my boyfriends full ash tray and dumped all the cigarette butts out in the yard..which I had the joy of picking up.

But yeah the last week she went 'missing' I suppose just staying around at some nearby friends house and me and my boyfriend are thinking while she was 'missing' she may have come back and smashed the window on his car. Problem is we'd have no way to prove it so we didn't call the cops or anything.

And maybe she did not do it, but just seems suspicious that she's been doing some passive aggressive things before towards us and somehow when she was missing from her home my boyfriends back side window got smashed. Certainly seems suspicious. But what are we to do with no proof...we just want to get out of this apartment and leave it behind...we had no idea it would be so sh*tty. I mean we simply refused to give a 14-15 year old cigarettes and asked kids to quit playing and smashing around right outside our back sliding glass door...just reasonable requests to have our space respected. And well its illegal to give underage kids cigarettes anyways....

I have to remember to let go and let god, to leave it to impartial karma, to not presume to know better than the universe.

Even in court, some defendants get convicted and sentenced to jail or murder. Later it turns out that they were not guilty.

Some guilty defendants get acquitted

Some defendants get convicted of rape and get three months jail. Brock turner.

Some defendants get convicted of rape and twenty years in jail.


What someone "deserves" is subjective (fine)

But double standards

Let's just say I never seek revenge and even try to lessen someone's consequences at times. Maybe I just feel bad for certain people and others though should know better.

We all get what we deserve eventually. Even if you think your s**t doesn’t stink.

My crap smells like lavender....

Oh...how I wish it did.....so I wouldn't have to spray every time!

The greatest revenge is success.

Especially when the people who ignored you when you were homeless come around begging for a handout or a place to stay after you've become successful and self-supporting ... and you get to direct them to the nearest homeless shelter instead ...

Yes, I'm a bad boy.

I know what you mean, Fnord. I understand completely.

Hahaha too Kraftie....lol