People dont like me

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Question for well anyone really i know im not a very nice person to be around people just dont like me for some reason i have tried to make friends with people and i just end up sitting in a chair or standing in a corner not talking at all and getting weird looks like get him out of my house so i just go poof as my brother calls it over the years i have learned to just stay away from people avoid relationships (even though i would like a relationship but im not worthy enough) and just stay to myself if people don't want me around then i wont be
Is it wrong to be this way?

no, u are just left out, because u are shy, and have problems with reading signals. each and every one of us has that problem)))) afraid to try. and then, well, maybe u see to my posts in simmilar topics? please forgive me, i dont want to leave u without an answer, but everything i wrote in neighbour topics just applies to u as well. nothing wrong with u as a person. never. read other topics that are captioned "cant make friends". i had wrote several walls of text on the issue just recently, and it all applies to u, and well, to 97% of aspergerians) please dont understand it as a lack of desire to help. i just think what i wrote earlier and to somebody else, should. chin high)

Thank you for your kind words dasvidaniya i do speak a little Russian not a lot

I have only had made two friends when I was 22 years old, they both eventually dropped me, but then I found a good 1:1 aspergers friend through an aspergers support group. We eventually had split too but not forever I think.

In groups, I can think of things to say but as I consider them in my mind - it becomes harder to say them and they will not come out naturally with natural timing and intonation. But if I did just speak my mind it would show people that I don’t understand and can’t keepnip with conversation and it would alienate people. In groups I freeze and stay quiet which bores people.

You can absolutely find joy in a one on one friendship once you find it. But you have to look for it in creative ways.

I am depressed and not willing to alienate people in my city so I don’t look for friends anymore.

[quote="Unwanted1forever"]Thank you for your kind words dasvidaniya i do speak a little Russian not a lot[/quotes am Russian but live in the states, and my Russian cousin went to college in
Indiana because people there are more open and friendly than in the northeast. I am also 30 years old. So is three have a little in common!