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Jamesy
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25 Oct 2020, 10:56 am

According to my friends the reason why this older woman in my social group picks on me all the time is because she wants to look ‘good’.

What does that mean she wants to look good by picking on me?



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25 Oct 2020, 11:00 am

I can't understand why someone would think they look good picking on someone. Idiotic but definitely but not good.



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25 Oct 2020, 11:16 am

maycontainthunder wrote:
I can't understand why someone would think they look good picking on someone. Idiotic but definitely but not good.




Apparently as well she thinks i am an easy target.


Not sure what that means exactley by easy target?



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25 Oct 2020, 11:28 am

Easy targets are those that don't complain and just take it. If you let this continue it will just get worse and while standing up to her is risky not doing anything is far worse for your mental health.

Your only other option is just to pretend she isn't there and utterly ignore her/not do anything she asks of you and hope she tires of talking to you.



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25 Oct 2020, 11:39 am

maycontainthunder wrote:
Easy targets are those that don't complain and just take it. If you let this continue it will just get worse and while standing up to her is risky not doing anything is far worse for your mental health.

Your only other option is just to pretend she isn't there and utterly ignore her/not do anything she asks of you and hope she tires of talking to you.



Why is it bad for my mental health?



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26 Oct 2020, 3:51 am

Though not all humans are we do share so similar traits. In my case the bullying caused me to try and take my life on multiple occasions.

In time bullying will do damage.



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01 Nov 2020, 5:36 am

That’s why I don’t hang out in bars. They seem dominated by the idiot element.