I got to meet somebody with whom I had done some online scholarship work. I ended up working within a couple hours of her area, so I emailed and got an invitation to visit.
It was fun. Pretty low stress for meeting a new person. None of the burdensome NT behaviors of politeness and conversation. For example: After being outside she got herself some iced tea. I thought I would like some, too. It wasn't offered, but, I realized I often forget go offer, too. Yet, I expect if someone is thirsty in my house they would, of course, get something to drink. After helping myself, she said, "Oh, good. You aren't one of those that will go away and complain that I didn't have anything to eat or drink at my place. I have stuff, I just don't think to offer it. I mean, when do you stop checking with people."
We still had miscommunications in conversation, but it was not a big deal, no blame was placed, and it was laughable.
05 Aug 2007, 9:32 am
