I just got home from a wedding, my cuz's to be exact, and i got to find out that a couple of my anuties seem to be slightly judgemental of their own mother, my grandma.
Its been a long time since i seen my one grandma as i am as so busy with work and i was standing around with a group of family members and my grandma made a comment about me going bald and i just joke around with it instead of taking it literally. A little while later i was standing with two of my anuts when my grandma wasn't around and they told me that grandma was being serious and wasn't joking around and that her behaviour was not acceptable. In my mind it seem like a joke to me and i ended up telling my anuties that i didn't take it literally and am able to joke about the fact that im going bald, ive been able to joke about it for years. My anuties seem to think that my grandma is slowly becoming senile and doesn't realize what she is saying. In my opinion my grandma is just being herself, im not going to be judgemental of my grandma, i am a little upset with my anuties, the more i think about it. this is my little venting session so that it rolls of my back and i move on and forget about it.
Why do women seem to be so judgemental of what other people do? Or am i coming of as judgemental towards my anuties? Were my anuties even being judgemental?
I did however learn that my family is very prone to addictions, so that was nice to learn.
I am a little upset with my one cusions husband, he works for another survey company in town and he was cutting down the company i work for and was trying to manipulate me into jumping ship.
29 Jul 2007, 1:01 pm
