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What kind of large personal favors has someone done for you?

What kind of large personal favors have you done for someone?

one of my former aikido "instructors", kayla, for many years, has had plenty of "volunteers" do work for her. a couple hours a week, each "volunteer", for a couple of years. that's an FLSA violation. i do not understand how she has been able to do that legally, socially, or morally. the "volunteers" are adults, many with advanced degrees, that appear to earn stable, professional incomes, socially adept, and et cetera. (rolls eyes). ("personal favor").

meanwhile, @ work, i have a doctor's note that i am not allowed to lift over fifty pounds. the training videos say other associates required to "help" with loading, but when i beg someone, those lil ass holes have the nerve to bark "i am not a slave!" and "am i helping you or are you helping me", or they refuse or complain. the bosses do not enforce the fact that other associates are required to "help" with loading. i feel like i'm f*****g panhandling, s**t, b/c i am begging them for something, and i have nothing to offer them in return.

likewise, when i asked my former stupidass "friends" anthony, dena, to say "excuse me" instead of "huh" or "what", those idiots had the nerve to flat out refuse. even my "parents" (who have been dead for a couple years), had the nerve to laugh at me. yes, they have "freedom of speech", but "actions speak louder than words". anyone could say anything. it's not like i asked them to "do" anything that takes time, $$, energy, or any other resource.

f**k dena, kayla b***h, anthony, and my "parents", s**t!

annoying lil dipshits refuse to do the slightest "personal favor" for me. while, for kayla b***h, "volunteers": bookkeeping, wordpress, janitorial, teaching, fix building.

f**k kayla b***h!

i wish i had "volunteers", to cook, clean, and drive, and et cetera. i am not good @ anything, zero job skills, do not like doing anything. besides, eight billion people in the solar system, and certainly plenty of them are much better than me at every life skill and job skill and everything else, s**t.

(kayla b***h)/(the "personal favors" she gets) = (shortfatbalduglyman)/(the "personal favors" i get)

kayla b***h: numerator
personal favors: denominator

there is nothing great about me, but if kayla gets all those personal favors, then i "deserve" some sort of personal favors, s**t!

f**k kayla b***h!

tis better to give than recieve.......but equity is a very nice thing....give and take ....( reciprocity )
It is not healthy for ones brain to expect any return of favours...sorry to say ....but be considerate of yourself aswell if you do grant any favours.
Helped somebody with chronic bronchitus beat it out ...And gave her a good idea on what to do, to take care of it herself...Then because had a windfall once month bought her a multiple strain Pnuemonia innoculation. Did not expect itto cost over 300 usd...Then helped her get into a high level security job..that had several training requirements .
And helped her sort those . As One day had taught her to how to Solder electrical circuitry. And trace solder failures .And Circuit board issues ( contacts) failures. Oddly enough discovered she may have adhd but , Got the impression , their maybe Autism involved ..And this one day...I realized. she learned by watching and physically doing .(.just one time).
Sort of like a Autodidact ..Which surprised me..that by itself could be indicative of a minor genius.
Because of this particular type of learning ability..She did not do well in school ,,She told she was even held back.
But in return , she happily returned the favour by giving me the heads up, when she became assistant manager, at a Halloween store..She told me when halloween animitronics that had damage and sold to me at a discount sometimes.

A. ...yeah... good one !...as if...
B. I'm tired of free labour and van hire to help people move, but I don't mind doing pyrotechnics as favours. My flatmates mother once insisted I cut my hair to testify in his court case. I bought a wig. She thanked me profusely after court, but didn't seem to notice the next day that my hair was suddenly long again.