Said this years ago in other forum, that masking conflicts the person inside, that unmasking and releasing batafina could be a good thing.
Would you say masks Ng or rather conforming eventually warps your social values that are associated embedded in your grain. By socialising more and more and having others place expectations on you, leaves me lost, can lead younger people to do things they usually wouldn't.
If someone constantly pressures you, one day you may respond with total social flop, even high school can make you do things probably wouldn't.
Thinking it's not autism to blame, it's social pressure and expectations. I didn't realise that id had sex with my first boyfriend or what it was, I was just doing this until I bumped into old friend who was horrified, but he never made all those moves, but he was one that made my heart jump. I realised after that my mistake, if I'd known about autism at that age, I'd maybe not have let society drag me into half that stuff.
Some tests state difficult to measure asd IQ as differences in sensory, memory and interest.... It's so complex to get upbringing and navigate daunting social field within the education system, so many of our talents and true feelings are unrecognised. Nt are really the bricks in the wall, life for them is easy, readily adaptable, easy to pass.
Why is life just so unfair?
27 Jan 2025, 12:45 pm
