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Kitty4670
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30 Jan 2025, 4:20 pm

Why Autism don't let you talk when you want to talk? I want to talk, not too often, when I do want to talk, I can't open my mouth.



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01 Feb 2025, 4:27 pm

Selective mutism, maybe?


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02 Feb 2025, 3:34 pm

I can't speak not all the time, but still a lot. I have been hard of hearing my whole life, I have some level of difficulty with translating my thoughts into speaking. But writing is easier, sign language too.

Why it happens? Fatigue, overstimulation and overwhelm, anxiety and stress...



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02 Feb 2025, 6:39 pm

Agrees with the above Posts .....Had often could not get my thoughts into words , often if i was able to get the words
out it came 5 mins up to a week later. :oops: :(


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Yesterday, 1:27 pm

I'm not sure if it's select mutism for me but around certain people I freeze up. Like, people at work who I know don't like me or I strongly suspect they don't. There is a neighbor down the street who has given me a dirty look a couple times, I saw him talking to this other neighbor that I talk to now and then. Usually, I will stop to talk to the one neighbor, but I saw her talking to the other one I ran back in the house until they were both inside.

I suspect it's anxiety and bad experiences for many, I know that's usually why I freeze up.


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