Well, here's the good news first. Your husband is someone who will be:
1) Reliable
2) Honest
3) Punctual
4) Faithful
5) And he will probably even know how to program your VCR
I know all this because this is what my girlfriend said about me when I asked a similar question a few weeks ago. There is however some bad news:
1) Surprises, even nice surprises probably won't go down all that well. Aspies LOVE routine and anything that disrupts this will probably not be welcome.
2) His diet may be restricted to a group of foods and he might eat them on a regular basis for evermore.
3) There may be one or two social problems when it comes to parties and groups, but you can help here. Arrange a set of signals between you so that if he does something which might be considered outside the 'social norm' you can let him know. My signal is the girlfriend asking if I want a tissue, that sort of thing.
You've probably got the better end of a deal and relationships with aspies CAN work. I'm not married but I've now been in the same relationship for seven years.
Ed Almos
Sadly, I can't agree with this. Reliable, honest, faithful, and punctual are attributes that I can only attribute to some of the Aspies I know.
I'm glad your experience has been so consistently positive though.