Female: social interacion

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Scale this, please post your approximate age.

I have the right one and not many (if any) before this one.
I have found the right one many times already.
I have someone but am feeling lonely anyways now and then, have not been with many (if any) other people.
Alone, I get out but there seems to be no one around who wants me, or just no one around, no options.
Alone, no one seems to be compatible with me that I want but single people are around.
Have someone but am lonely.
I do not know I never get out enough, but people come over.
I do not know I never get out, no one comes over.
I am to young for this scale, not dating yet.
Don't care, never been interested.
Not listed (please describe)

The large variety of options is a bit confusing, but I voted.

Vote: Not listed

29, not interested, but I used to think I needed something from people. I was a fool back then. Thinking I actualy needed friendship and stuff just because people told me so. Ahh my blind teen years. The years that have gone to waist, thanks to some that didn't understand.

I voted: "I am to young for this scale, not dating yet."

I don't understand the poll. Is it about relationships or friends?

relationships and the chance there of, do you choose to be alone or not, do you get board or simply find reason to be unhappy with your current relationship or not, whats your outlook on these things, how hard do you actually try to make a relationship work or is it after the first sign of trouble dump the fella and start again. stuff like that.
how hard is it for you to start over.

you see, with most men, there are few options, men just cant jump up and start over, sometimes it takes years to find someone new, we have no (or few) choice.
girls may learn what they are looking for more faster then men because they have more options, yes they may go through more relationships this way but they find what they want sooner or they "choose" to not be in a relationship at all for a long while.

Mostly I want to compare the differences in the polls.
the more girls go through relationships, the more colder they may seem to become to what men have to go through them selves, lack of empathy with males due to frequency and commonality of relationships, the more relationships a female goes through the less men matter when it comes to braking hearts or trying to make a relationship work, the sooner the female gives up and starts over.

Many men try harder then you may think they do, but after a while it does not matter it seems to the female.

Ah, right. I chose 'not listed'. I have a boyfriend and get on with him really well but I don't know if he's the one. He's my first partner so I can't compare him to anyone else. Besides, I'm too young to think of spending the rest of my life with one person - I'm 22.

Born 1960. Female. A few botched relationships until diagnosed with depression at 34. Got on meds. Was happy. Got pregnant. Was single mom for awhile. Married at 39. He was the first man I completely trusted. He's a wee bit controlling, we've had some problems. Two therapists said he was an Aspie, and I suggested that leave him for our daughter's sake (he adoped her). But, I think that God makes us take marriage vows because He knows how hard relationships are; and too many people just give up, or want to "upgrade." I've thought of it, but realized that he is in this for the long haul, and he overlooks all my problems, so I can do that too. Relationships get easier when both people know that the other isn't thinking about getting out (but get out if it's abusive!)

I voted #4