I sometimes go to a doughnut shop in my area because, despite it being a religious organization, they make the best doughnuts around. I've never really socialized with the people but last time I went, there was a cute young girl working behind the counter. She had sort of a punk rock hairstyle (Buzzed around the sides but not on the top and front) and had a lot of energy but I didn't engage in conversation with her because my mind felt conflicted about the things I've been told about interacting with strangers, especially in retail. But now I am kicking myself for not saying anything besides what doughnuts and drinks I wanted when she asked mez