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I posted in another forum about a girl I saw the other day.
If you read it you'd get a good idea of the dilemma I'm in.
Short version is I her friend and I tried to get together but were both shy and nervous so it didn't work out well but I still like her. Now her friend was talking to me the last day of class really talking not just listening and paying attention being nice and all. Now when I see her I don't say hi b/c I'm afraid she hates me b/c it didn't work out btwn me and her friend. I saw her at BK during
lunch as I was leaving and just stared for like five seconds b/c I was in shock. Afterwards I looked
away and she was frozen when I was looking at her but when I looked away she started walking
again. Then she stood behind me and was looking at me out of the side of her face but didn't say anything. She was in the aisle that they make you walk through to get to the counter and stopped behind me to look at me. Now I want to send her a message on facebook basically asking if she is mad at me or if her friend hates me or if they just think I hate them. I haven't spoken to either of them since last semester and I want to but I'm always worried about whats normal and whether I look like I'm crazy or stalking them or something which is why it didn't go well with her friend b/c I kept thinking she hated me but later find out I just over thought it again, and again, and again. Which is why I'm posting I want advice on this.

well, there's always the possibility that she's as scared of you as you may be of her. No one likes rejection, and everyone is at least a little afraid of it.

Here's a though; just be yourself, and approach her like nothing's on the line. Just talk to her like anyone else. See how she reacts. Ask questions of her friend. Maybe something can happen. If they didn't want anything to do with you, they'd probably let you know. And smile (as my parents always told me...

Write her a note explaining how you feel - much easier.

Did you see a previous post by Pugly?

Bake her cookies. Apparently this does work (ask Pugly). It's very seductive.