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I am feeling a little down the last couple of weeks and it's because of an issue with another girl that I know. I recently had a rather nasty falling out with her over a guy who has issues of his own. I think the problem is that she was extremely jealous when the guy took some notice in getting to to know me.

Anyway, some of you may know the story of what happened on New Years where he wanted to take this women home with him. I jumped to conclusions, thinking that he wanted to have sex with her which was totally untrue. He's also asperger's is extremely clueless and naiive about the whole thing. I should not have gotten so mad about it.

For some of you who probably read her blog in the 'Women's section,' on Easter. I did feel midly suicidle and even broken spirited at what happened. However, she you only heard her side of the story. My side is the fact that she brought the story along and didn't even bother to tell me. She also knew that the guy and I have a falling out on New Years and needed some time to mend things. Unfortunately, threw the story in his face before I had a chance to talk to him. I really felt that it was low and unacceptable. Not only did she do that, this girl bragged out him smiling at her creative writing and that's when I started crying. I felt like she was playing games with me to make me jealous on purpose.

That's not the only thing she's done because there are other things she was saying and doing that I feel were very mean. For one thing, I love wearing a pixie haircut, and she told me that only lesbians wear their hair like that and men won't notice me. She also made a really rude and snotty comment about a beautiful ball gown that I wore last spring and this year I wore one way different. That comment was that the first gown was too highschoolish. I really feel like she was jealous of me for that. Besides that, she had a huge crush on the guy for a long time, and when I came in the picture, he wanted to give me a chance. In response, she pouted about it for 2 years because he didn't talk to her anymore. And when he and I got into a fight on New Years, she found the perfect opportunity to savatage the situation and my friendship. Anyway, we got into a really bad fight two weeks ago because of the e-mails. I ended up snapping and calling and leaving a message on her machine that she was mean and her other friends didn't want to hang out with her for that reason. I also threatened her if that she were ever to flirt with him infront of me again like that, I would reveal some obscene drawings to him. (She drew some really nasty and naughty cartoons about him that were too inappropriate). She ended up called back was like, "That was really childish and you're being a real b***h. You are not worth crying about," and hung up. So we have been fighting since. Not only that, but get this, she has also ben trying to call another good friend of mine and tell her to tell me that there is a misunderstanding?
What do ya'll think about this whole mess?

Wow... um, if it were me, I'd stay away from them both. Just forget the pair of them (I know that's way easier said than done)

No actually,
he's not the problem. It's more the less that she is. She acts like a 12-year-old spoiled brat amd a drama queen, I might add. He and I talked things over last night when I read her posting on the 'Women's section.' I cried my eyes out and wrote to her telling her calmly how I felt and then I talked to him and we talked it out. As for her, she's being a total butt about the whole thing too.

Lene's point (I think) was that to openly meet with him will incite more of her bad behavior and if you wish to continue your relationship with him you must be prepared to tolerate more grief from her
However you may be able to remedy matters by apologizing yes apologizing to her for your bad behavior and asking her to stop painting you in a bad light/ whatever you don't like her doing nicely