Ante wrote:
He was a mystery to me that I wanted to fathom. I had a sense that no matter what he was like, I would like him. He might be depressing, he might be funny. He might be stupid, he might be clever. He might be wise, he might be foolish. No matter what, though, I think I was sure I'd like him.
This is interesting because most people intimidate me. I am not usually certain I want to talk to someone. Even more interesting is that I hardly ever am confident that I would want to talk to a male but in this case he was special. Maybe it's because he looked like a big teddy bear - cuddly, friendly, harmless. Or maybe I was attracted to him because he appeared to have low self-esteem or suffer from depression.
Maybe you were attracted to him because he reminded you of you?