i have had issues with trust all my life but recently ive started to learn how to deal with it
i have discovered that NT's seem to trust others effortlessly because its just not worth getting worried about
empathy is very important here, imagine in a relationship a girl/boy says to you " i would never ever cheat on you"
the natural reaction of someone with an ASD would be to analyze what was just to a ridiculous degree, the fact that you are analyzing it is just you telling your mind that it may not be true, when you should put yourself in their shoes and think " whatever i feel for them they feel for me " EMPATHY
the most important thing is to be happy and confident, a negative mind + an ASD is a FATAL mixture
just trust people, more than likely they will be telling the truth, if you discover they have lied then so be it. both NT's and people with ASD's have to deal with betrayal
08 Oct 2008, 3:47 am
