I am struggling with my current friendship group because I can go for a month or weeks without seeing them and when I do think my friendships are going somehwere it never stays that way. Honestly its like groundhog day with my friends, its really depressing
It could be pehaps becuase I mainly keep in contact with one memeber of the group to organise social events with my friendship group?
I have falling out with a few members of the group in the past as well.
I have met some new guys at the college I go to though.
Ok I wan't your opinion should I stick with my old friends or focus on developing new friendships with the guys I have met at the collge I go to?
For the record I have sematic pragmatic communication disorder (like Aspergers syndrome) so this could have a part to play in keeping friendships etc...
My family are saying I should stick with my current friends and develop new ones at the same time. Not just ditch my current friendship group.
well just to forewarn alot of people think I'm self absorbed and don't like me but in my relationships I look objectively of what they offer me. Now that sounds pretty selfish but look at it this way if I have one person who doesn't add to my life much and takes more then they give and I have a person whos here to help us mutually grow who should I pick? I look at each friends postive and negative qualities and then decide using that to determine what they will add to my life. In the end though all my friends know that quite simply I'm not good at keeping in contact and most of them go out of their way to keep in contact with me especially when I go through my burnt out from people phases.