Give them space. But how much?

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I know that there is no exact formula for this but I thought that maybe someone one have a few good ideas if I threw out a situation that I am going through right now.



I have a friend who over the past few months I have become pretty close friends with. We both enjoy each others company. Sometimes we hang out by ourselves, sometimes in groups. We have a lot of mutual friends as well. I understand that we both need time to ourselves as well as with other friends. I have other friends, as does he. But sometimes I find myself so attached that if we are doing things seperately, I am not satisfied with being with my other friends or sometimes, while I know that he needs time to himself, I want to hang out with him anyway but I don't say anything. I'm not a stalker, but a LITTLE more attached to him then he is to me. Suggestions?

I'd be happy to suggest something if I could figure it out for myself as well, because it's something I've been going through too. Sorry that I can't be of more help to you.

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Yep I have the same problem figuring this one out